REFLECTIONS

MASTERS OF DECEIT!

By Hala El-Banna

Charming

Charismatic

Luring

Flirting

But above all

Liars!

All of which constitutes

A character so complex

So inhumane …

Are they victims

Like terrorists?

Victims of their environment and upbringing

Thus

Bombs they become directed to society.

Are we so blinded to the healthcare of our citizens?

What do we expect as a result or an outcome?

Are parents main mission to make babies and into the streets they throw?

Or into the hands of servants?

What do we expect from a man or a woman

Who has been fed no mercy, no love, and no compassion?

Simply, if you don’t have it, you can’t give it.

And that’s the dilemma, the ordeal, our greatest loss.

Once, some time ago I wrote something entitled “Died in cradle,”

I felt so sad watching our youth go to waste

And not one person in authority thought it mattered!

This attitude of indifference is the cause of our real crisis.

When humans become robots

Become selfish and envious

When they lack remorse

Lack gratitude

Hate to share

Become arrogant and obsessed by their image in the mirror

Glorify themselves rather than their Creator

DEVILS they become

And fight them we have to

But long before that

Why don’t we try to prevent that Malignant Disorder in Personality?

They say it’s a natural thing in a child of 3 year old to be possessive,

A narcissist.

But

This attitude should be reformed by the parents during the years throughout the different stages of childhood and adulthood and by the time of manhood a mature person should have reached that clear cut between the world of Fantasy and that of Reality.

But with missing, ignorant or unaware parents, the child is left to himself, like street children. He has no self confidence what so ever, for it has not been satisfied.

He is not reformed and thus matures bodily while in personality he still is in

Fact a kid of three! Living only in fantasy during manhood/womanhood is a Catastrophe by all means.

The person be he man or woman is incapable of living a normal life. He cannot maintain a steady relationship for he is simply incapable of a lot of humanly aspects.

He’s devoid of any true emotion towards any other human being!

Human beings to them are but objects that satisfy their ego, their mirrors.

They cannot stand to hear of any others success, always belittling others.

They are said to be living in their own world, focusing absolutely on themselves. The T.V. and P.C. become their true world. An imaginary one which becomes the only reality they know.

They see every right in taking what is not theirs and are said to want it all.

Compromise and reciprocation do not exist in their diction.

Human Beings are non-existent to them. They have seen none!

When they really needed a model, human beings, absents were their parents

The result,

A BOMB

NARCISSIST PERSONALITY DISORDER!

Ms. Hala Elbanna, MA, the winner of the International Poets award is an international correspondent for The Ambassadors Magazine. She is the author of four poetry books: Men & Women with Broken Hearts: A guideline to prevention and treatment, Reflections: A collection of poems and Violin Man and "Poetic Cocktail". Her email is dalou@excite.com.